Right, exactly. We may think we're forgetting everything but it's just that we aren't as strongly connected anymore. And that's why I think if we try to remember other things, maybe those memories will come back. Lup and I were talking about writing down the most important ones. Just in case.

[but he tilts his head.] If that's true, then...wouldn't the mind just need to heal? So that it's not hurt anymore. [replace mind with heart and that's really what he's asking here.]